I'm dreaming of greatness during a midday nap. I think the details matter. I always say things in the right order. The way I use language matters a lot to me (this includes spelling and grammar). I'm sarcastic and irreverent, but "intense" (let the record show that I feel foolish using this word) and serious underneath. I try to be a better person and occasionally succeed. I'm not a Christian, but I like churches. Film, music, books, art, architecture, etc...that's where it's at. Conversation about all of that (and more)...that's also where it's at. That's a lot of thats.
I care about stuff. I have things to express.
Her:
Articulate, she cares about the words she uses . Observant, she pays attention to details, and remembers. Beautiful, she has a face I can fall in love with. Passionate, she has something to say. Intelligent, she thinks and perceives deeply. Emotional, she values the intensity of her feelings. Sarcastic, she'll understand my sense of humour. Honest, she communicates freely without hiding or playing (too many) games. Complex, she will always remain a partial mystery. Patient, she can put up with me. Open, she has few expectations of me. Imaginary, she may not exist.
All of the above is secondary, if you have expressive eyebrows. I said eyebrows, that means more than just one.