I am currently in the reserves so i am looking for someone who i can count on. I may have to leave sometimes for training and deployments so having that trust in someone is huge deal to me. I am also big on HONESTY! I like someone who has a good sense of humor and enjoys being with friends and family. I am laid back and simple. I care about people and sometimes too much. The reason for the military and for going to school for MA is because i do enjoy helping out others. I enjoy going to the gym, even going fishing, even more the beach. I also enjoy being outside and usually not someone who likes being stuck in doors all day. Would like to be with someone who has a good head on there shoulder. Who dosnt play games and is good communitcating. I would like to someone down to earth and has a good heart. I do not smoke and do not want to be with someone who smokes. Yes smoking when you go out to a bar only still counts as smoking. If your someone that holds on to an EX from the past till this day please dont bother sending any messages. I've learned to move on with my life and i want someone else who is willing to do the same. If your someone all about money don't bother. Also if your going to lie about your age and also the fact you have kids also don't bother. Iam not someone who rushes into a relationship.....I need someone to by my friend first then go from there. I dont waist my time with someone who thinks he can put zero in a relationship and do whatever he wants. I believe in both sides working hard in the relationship. If your the type that thinks he should do whatever and whenever regardless of being in a relationship also do not bother messaging me. I would like someone who set goals and also someone who likes going to the gym once in a while or going running.