Honestly.....I am not looking for a man who tells me he loves me only to get what he wants from me....I have been through some hard times since being divorced after 22 years. I am looking for someone who truely loves and not someone who plays with my emotions. I need a man i can depend on. I want a man who can't wait to see me at the end of the day and still wants to see me in the morning. Someone who thinks of me during the day and sends me a random text or call to say that you are thinking of me. It's the little things that mean alot. You must have a soft and gentle side ...tenderness and understanding are key. Not looking for someone who cares more about himself than others. Or thinks that he is God's gift to women...If this sounds harsh it's only because I am tired of being played and hurt by men...but still not ready to go and get a girlfreind...lol. I know the man for me is out there, and i want you to know i am waiting for you....and please ..if you smoke...be considerate of a non smoker...