I'm a happy, adventurous person looking for someone who sees life similarly to me! No couch potatoes please because I truly can't stand it! I don't really suffer fools or unintelligence very easily, even though that sounds mean, it's true. I'm very nice, honest, and genuine but will not tolerate cruelty or unkindness toward others (No, I'm not a boring stick in the mud, I make fun of others just like everyone else does....I just try not to do it where they can hear me and be hurt...) I'm looking for a manly man! I like my man to be much bigger than me, and not be a p**** ;) I can have fun anywhere I go and need a glimmer of the same in my man. Honesty and loyalty are a must, as is integrity and an understanding that there is one way to behave in public and another in the confines of your home and relationship. A sense of humor is PARAMOUNT because I love to laugh and make my companion laugh! I need someone who understands the difference between laughing with an idiot, and laughing at him! I wanna laugh at idiots with my partner! I love a guy who can talk about a book, not because I like to talk about books, but because the ABILITY to speak intelligently about one really excites me! I'm pretty spicy and need someone to level me out a bit! I dislike being the one in my relationship who has to know everything and have all the answers so a man with some sort of level head and ability to give advice, make a sound decision, and take control when necessary really soothes my personality. Don't get me wrong, I can be somewhat of a powerhouse when it comes to weaker personalities, which is why I know I need a stronger guy! I like to be treated like a lady and feel safe to treat my partner like a king. I have only one child, a teenage daughter and have no intentions of having any more. If you have children I am great with that! Please don't respond to me by speaking ebonics or by using the words yo, gurl, bae, babe, dis, dat, dem (unless you're referring to the Saints, and then it may be forgiveable) If you hunt, please don't contact me (sorry). If you actively have Jesus in your life, also a no-go for me. (Not a judgement, I just know we wouldn't hit it off) If you have zero intuition, and believe people who are fairly intuitive to be crazy, you're barking up the wrong tree. If you're emotionally inept, or a cry baby, either end of the spectrum will send me running! I am attracted to confident, intelligent, and sincere men who know how to be men and how to treat a woman. I hope my do's and don'ts haven't come across as rude or conceited, I just don't want to waste your time or mine on something that wouldn't play out well. I'm just a girl who knows exactly what she wants ;)
