I'm just a big guy looking for someone special to spend life with. I am looking for someone that lives life with the same basic virtues I do, like being honest, ALWAYS, even if you know the truth is gonna hurt. Another virtue I am big on is Loyalty. You get what you give. I don't have a jealous bone in my body. When you say I'm the only one, I believe you! I am an affectionate person, I am all about the snuggle.
I currently work in the I.T. Department for an insurance company.
I am a Freemason. Let me jump in and clear up a few things about being a Freemason here:
No, I don't know where the Holy Grail is.
No, I don't know where the Ark of the Covenant is.
No, it is not a secret society. The places we meet are marked and we post the times we meet on the door.
No, it's not a religion. However, you have to believe in a monotheistic religion to join.
The Da Vinci Code, The Lost Symbol, and National Treasure are wonderful works of fiction that do include some factual information.
And lastly, we have absolutely nothing to do with anything satanic.
With that said, any questions not already covered are completely welcome!
Moving on, It's been about 9 years since I have been in a serious relationship. There is no baby mama drama, turns out she makes for an awesome friend, just a horrible significant other. On that note, infidelity / loyalty is kinda a big issue for me. If I can be loyal, so can you....
I'm totally a 1 woman kinda guy. Once I got ya, no one else exists.
Few rules I live by:
Give no less and expect no more than honesty, loyalty, courage, and generosity.
Don't sweat the small stuff.
It's all small stuff.
I want to take a second to explain my heading. What I mean by "Probably not what you are looking for!" is I read a lot of profiles on here from you ladies stating "I just want a honest, loyal, and loving guy" or "looking for a real man" or even "looking for a guy that can make me laugh, is a gentleman, and so on..."
Now, I don't wanna bust balls here but I kinda have to. A lot of you ladies say these things but if it were really true, there would be a lot more guys like me at your sides.... You know who you are!!! roflz
Look, I understand the desire for those washboard abs you could crack eggs on, hey I got them too, mine are just buried under a little dirty laundry...lol
Now, I can hear you saying, ok big fella, I bet you are only going after the thin and beautiful girls that are completely out of your league. Yup, you caught me....
But I am going after the beautiful bigger girls that are out of my league too. I mean, I do like petite women, but I like a girl with meat on her bones too. The catch for me is that I want a woman that's genuine. And to be completely candid here, I'd much rather be with someone that was a hideous chode but was a caring and genuine person than be with drop dead gorgeous fake. I do realize that I am more on the hideous chode side myself, but I'm cool with it, I make up for it other ways.....lol
So, back to the point, "Probably not what you are looking for!" means, I have all of the virtues and traits you are looking for in a man save one, I am not a pretty boy with an awesome body.
Sorry to disappoint you ladies, I'm built for comfort not for speed...lol
This doesn't mean I am just some lazy couch potato or that I never leave the comfort of my momma's basement and just lay around in my race car bed. I do workout a minimum of 3 days a week and I do get out and enjoy a good evening stroll. I do have a bit of extra insulation (great for keeping you warm in the winter) but am still active. Would be awesome to find a lady that could help keep me motivated though....
I hope to become some beauty's beast one day....hahahahahal