Life is really quite amazing. However, all pleasures are exponentially magnified when shared with that special person. To me, life is best when becoming a sensuous treat.
I'm searching the perfect “three in one”: A friend (conversation partner, intellectual, emotional and physical companion); a lover (another kind of conversation, but this one reserved for just one person); and someone to share being a parent with (in some way or form;-)) - (a relationship that extends and deepens the other roles and projects into the unknowable future).
Wants: You calm and excite me!
Keywords: integrity, honesty, spirituality, emphatic communicator, warmth, depth, presence, consistency, healthy and active lifestyle, passion (not drama), generosity (w attention, affection, physical connection, love), add a big splash of humor, drive, intelligence, amazing life achievements and high self-esteem (w humble attitude:)), spontaneity, playfulness and fun loving (not superficiality), a Head and Body type of man (please!), who is truly available, ready to commit, knows what he wants and needs and can express it to me..Yes that’s all – almost – hope you’re not only able, but crave, to love, and be loved.
ME: Match the above.
Keywords: Danish, brimming happiness, affectionate, physical, playful and very high maintenance eg. relationships (integrity (honesty), commitment, emotional, spiritual and physical connectivity), low maintenance eg. material stuff...don't care much, and can get what I want or need myself.
I’m seeking my life-long conversation partner and more. To me engaging in a relationship is easy and natural (you commit, stay connected, thrive and grow together. It's what I know from previous relationships, from my parents, and knew from my grandparents), and I never seem to need to fight… I do talk, laugh and touch a whole lot though...ha ha....
Other than utopia catcher, I’m a doctor, scientist, Ph.D. and a research professor. I enjoy what I do (teaching, learning, mentoring, being creative, inspired, collaborative), but it’s not what defines me!
I thrive being “feminine” w my partner (playful, soft, physical, nurturing, happy, carefree, emotional, whimsical..). Apparently this is not always obvious, so now you know.
..have over-expressed social gene ....so content w friends, family around, out, or at my house, cooking, entertaining, sharing life stories. When alone, I treasure walks, runs at the beach w feet in the ocean, reading, meditating, writing, music, training, learning something new.
Traveling; often a combo of work and pleasure (conferences and adjunct Professorship in Europe, spend weeks or months on the “old” continent) and exhale when back at my lovely cottage. I surfed for the first time in Hawaii (start March)...I'm hoooked..:) can't wait to explore if beginner's luck translate to SoCAL conditions!?! From the mountains of the ocean to the waves on the land - returned from conference and skiing in Whistler last night, another treat.
I have a full, busy and happy life, but I know how to integrate someone special and make the relationship the top priority. I expect the same from my partner.
ohh and if you can stay away from me...I'm not your girl..it's really that simple.
"Addictions": Addicted to the impossible-to-duplicate glow and bond that can only come between a man and woman who are immersive lovers…. Icing on the delicious chocolate cake a divine relationship is.
Note: "Addiction" refers to that ONE man I choose to be with, my life is too short for pretending, games and half-heartedness.
YOU know if you’re my equal - Can’t wait to hear from you!
Sorry I don't respond to wink's. If an e-mail is to much effort for you, my presence in real life will certainly be way over your head ...ha ha..
