I would really like to find someone with similar interests who also has a career and is financially stable, preferably successful. I want someone who can afford to do the things I like to do and can balance work and a social life. I enjoy being socially and financially independent and am interested in someone who finds that to be a good attribute. I want someone to enjoy life, food, beer, travel with but can also maintain our separate lives and friendships. Overbearing and needy are huge turnoffs for me. So is being an underachiever or coming with baggage. I want something fun but stable, if that exists anyway lol.