Hey there. I am no longer sure what to expect from here so here goes : I'm hopelessly hopeful. I have a big heart that I try to protect but love to give away if you seem worth it.
I am generally very direct. Except you won't think that if we get to the first date stage. I like men who are decisive. I like men who can plan a date. If I don't like something, believe me I will tell you. I'm also very outgoing except for the very first time we meet. I'm a little shy. I like to observe and listen. So that I can actually see if we are compatible.
With that said I am looking for a quality/fearless guy. I want someone who is smart yet can still have fun and is not overly serious. I love to laugh! I love the theatre, movies, and theme parks. I'm looking for someone who wants more. I'm looking for butterflies and excitement, and someone who likes to cuddle. Someone who notices the small details and is a romantic at heart. I know it might sound like I am asking for a lot but believe me I wouldn't ask for something that I wouldn't be willing to do.
About me: I am passionate, opinionated, and sensitive (but I will try not to let you see it.) I'm tough. I play dodgeball. I love the arts, live music, and spontaneous trips. I'm unconventional. I think thats it for now. I am also bad at describing myself ;) If you'd like to know more just ask.
disclaimer: while I am flattered by the attention I've been receiving from the older gentleman. Age is a deal breaker. Especially in the 40s. My father is 49... So dating anyone in the realm of his age kind of turns me off. So please don't be offended if I don't respond. Also I find when there is an 8 to 10 year age gap. The relationship tends not to work but that's my own personal experience and I'm not knocking it. it's just not for me.
