Ultimately in life I'm looking for someone who already understands the importance of individuality and maintaining a balanced and emotionally rewarding relationship. I am at a point in my life where I have many things going on and would really be happy with someone I can just be myself with where we could be "simple" together. My ideal match would be extra-ordinarily sophisitcated and complex intellectually otherwise our senses of humor will not meld...I prefer if she didn't watch too much television and preferred instead to read, exercise, hike or play an instrument. I value a persons tendency to read food labels and be concerned about food choices (not excessively but reasonably) and who enjoys the emotional experience of preparing a healthy meal together knowing that life is as good as you make it, and that depends entirely on who you surround yourself with!