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Handle:
icantwink
Essay:
Me on coffee in the morning: Important stuff first: Being in the same place is important, otherwise; things just don't align. Communication is critical. Being friends is key. Honesty - above all other things, creates the foundation for trust. If you do not have it then love doesn't stand a chance. I'm definitely a romantic & affecionate...assuming theres a connection. There is a feeling I am waiting for. Love messing around with music, writing and painting when I have the time. Finally taking guitar lessons! Music is a big part of my life & I so desperately want to be a rock star. :p A little quiet but not shy. Deep but not complicated. Responsible but rowdy. Love being involved w/ my family/friends lives & look forward to making a family of my own. Love to cook, dance &be silly with my partner. I am goal-oriented and in love with so many things and have a million interests, whether that is good or bad. Think it is important to try new things & continue to grow as a person. I'm excited for my future & ready to find someone to be by my side through it all. I need a secure, responsible, fun - Man. One that isn't scared to commit & won't commit too soon (just as bad). One that will treat me right even when I'm wrong. Someone I can enjoy all there is with. Someone I can depend on. I am a tall, strong, independent woman. Most cannot handle this. I will not follow you around like a puppy dog. The right person will balance things by being a man & allowing me to take charge where needed. ;) I need a man to treat me like a lady, b/c although I can do a lot (or think I can), I'm still a woman. Guys that are a little old fashioned are sexy. Opening a door or surprising someone with something will never hurt your relationship. I am passionate, intelligent & a goof. My best friend is a guy. He calls me Meemaw. I have a lot of energy. Don't confuse that with extremely outgoing or loud. Pet peeves: Lying. Bad grammar. Laziness. Not following through. Waiting. Being disrespected. People who base their existence off the person they've been dating for 2 weeks. Gag! I want the real thing! Or maybe if I feel that way it would be okay because it is? Hmmmm.... Attractions: Men who make me feel safe. Tall strong men who aren't afraid to take charge!! Chivalry. Makes me laugh and gets my humor! Scruff. Romantic gestures. Versatility. Financial stability - more importantly, responsible!! Someone who surprises, challenges and brings out the best of me. Someone that can put out some of my fires and appreciate the others. :) I can be a firecracker. Totally aware of that. In other words, the "guy" who is going to do what it takes in the long run.
Gender:
Female
City:
Oklahoma City
State:
Oklahoma