My Headline is Everything In Moderation. What I mean by that is that I'm looking for someone who isn't extreme in any way and enjoys many different things, which is kind of the way I live my life.
I'd like her to be someone who:
enjoys going out, but also is fine w staying home watching TV; has opinions and likes to debate, but is not argumentative and angry; enjoys exercising and working out together, but is not a gym rat; knows how to carry herself in all situations, but is not pretentious; is driven and ambitious, but does not base her self-worth on financial success; has a great relationship w her family, but does not need to involve them in every decision she makes; enjoys going dancing as much as she enjoys hiking.
The list could go on and on, but I think you get the point. Honestly, I just want a girl who is nice, respectful, honest, down to Earth, genuine and isn't opposed to compromising once in a while and I would try my best to do the same.
I decided to add this part based on my experiences on here. Really all I want is a pretty girl to go hang out w and see where it takes us. I want to spend time w a girl who wants to do things like go running together, go ice skating, go to the zoo and aquarium, walk the Brooklyn Bridge, explore different neighborhoods, eat ice cream, drink hot cocoa, go to brunch, etc. I like going to bars and or an occasional club or lounge, but that is not what I want the focus to be.
Also, I'm a passionate kind of guy. I enjoy hugging and kissing and holding hands. That doesn't mean I have fallen in love and it doesn't mean I'm a player. It just means i like you and enjoy being w you. No need to read further than that. I'm a very up front honest guy, almost to a fault. I'll always let you know how I feel and I just ask for the same from you.
I look forward to meeting someone who feels similarly...
PS We live in NYC where every band in the world comes through on tour. It would be nice to meet someone who enjoys similar music. Some that are coming through or have come through recently that I like are Citizen Cope, Mumford and Sons, Ray Lamontagne, DMB w The Lumineers, Coldplay...