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40 year old woman
Concord, New Hampshire, United States

Seeking:
men 30-45
Within:
30 Miles of Concord, New Hampshire, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

This is the part where you are supposed to talk about how great you are right?! Well, I am going to try real hard to throw in an equal measure of both selling points (hopefully) and candid truths...
Let's see, I don't have an outdoors job, but I love the outdoors more than anything (in my alternate life I might be a park ranger, a wildlife biologist, a professional outdoor photographer or a gardener) and like to spend time with active people who love nature. So that is a must in a partner. I really enjoy art and photography also, and engage in both as hobbies when I can. I have recently moved to the area, so I am still mastering my new work and learning the environment, but I think I've done quite a bit of exploring actually. I have decided I love it here! I have traveled out of the country quite a bit, and wouldn't mind the idea of even living overseas for a time. I do have a lot of responsibility in my work, so I hope to find a supportive mate who will very much encourage me to maintain/foster balance. Being able to do things I enjoy with a special partner would give me a great deal of motivation to set limits on work more. Although people say I am very outgoing, I need down time and quiet every day, because I spend all day talking to people! I tend to enjoy a modest amount of very close friendships over numerous acquaintances. Sleep is very important to me (more than the average person because of my work demands), so I hope you don't snore, or at least not badly! I love games and good books, animals, gardens, dancing and the occasional movie. Since I stay busy, I don't watch much TV by myself (would love to watch with someone else if they had a favorite show). I am private by nature and very selective in my relationships, but wear my heart on my sleeve to those I become close to. I have a lot of love to give someone special. I am playful and I really enjoy children. I find it easy to connect with them. I have two big dogs. I like to make people laugh, and easily see the humor in things. My personality varies from B to A , and cautious to very gutsy, depending on the situation. I am quite down to earth and enjoy other down-to-earth people. I am not possessions-oriented. I pretty much let others be who they want to be, but tend to have very high standards for myself. No matter what my life is like right now, I believe am seasoned enough to be very open to change with the right partner.

My ideal relationship will be one in which:
-We enjoy doing numerous activities together, especially anything outdoors like hiking/biking/ kayaking, traveling, home projects, reading, playing games, romping with the dogs in the woods, enjoying home cooked meals together.
-We both enjoy learning, are motivated to live life fully, and are committed to the idea of bringing out the best in ourselves and each other.
-We enjoy having time together, but also recognize the importance of time apart, spent with family, friends, or just alone.
-We are both secure in ourselves--we like whom we are as individuals and therefore are able to be confident and faithful partners to each other.
-We share common values that unify us over the test of time.
-We are both motivated to develop to our fullest potential.
-We make each other laugh, and we help broaden each other's perspective.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have 2 dogs and love animals. I rode horses when I was a child and would love to have that as part of my life again one day.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

hiking, biking, kayaking, gardening, fishing, home projects, travel, photography, painting, dancing, reading, curling up on the couch to a good movie.

Favorite hot spots:

Cozy cafes, funky restaurants, HATE smoky bars (well, probably bars in general). Favorite places: anywhere there are rivers, lakes and mountains! Spain, Venice, Austria &China were my favorite overseas travels, but I love the U.S. Pacific Northwest.

Favorite things:

great coffee; unusual shops (hate malls, NOT a shopaholic); comfy jeans; confident (not cocky), honest, motivated people; gardens; butterflies; dragonflies; watercolor; sunshine; mountains; books; Middle Eastern food

Last read:

Following Atticus, Growing Up Shaker and House Calls and Hitching Posts

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Christian / Catholic, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

Catholic upbringing originally. Went to other churches later. I don't have much use for religious distinctions at this point in my life, only that spirituality is very important to me. I just strive and hope to be all that God intends for me to be.

Languages:
English, German
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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