PLEASE. I'm asking that you NOT send me an email if your main pic is of your self proclaimed Astounding Abs or your lower half with your jeans unzipped with part of your package showing. I won't even open your email. I'm sure ya look great - BUT I don't need to see your goods as my initial first impression. Thanks ;)
Ok, SO, I am a classy woman, as well as a total goof. I enjoy watching sports, but would love to fall asleep on your chest during a game too. I golf 2-3x's a month, but don't putt ;) I love to read and research, and I'm currently enrolled to receive my Master's in Dietetics. I appreciate time with my girlfriends, but dont want to be in the clubs. I would love to find someone that fits my need for a healthy balance of fitness and eating well with movies, wine and a fire at home as well as a dressed up night out enjoying the arts. My guy will have a GREAT sense of humor, be funny and quick in banter and stay healthy and fit. He will have a great personality! Im ok with silence, but it should be "peaceful" silence. Not awkward bc you're uninteresting and dont have anything to talk to me about. Can we sit at dinner and actually keep conversation for over an hour? Why would I settle for less?
I like to look nice - always - I am not High Maintenance, although I do highly maintain myself - there IS a difference :) I feel just as gorgeous in jeans and a t-shirt as I do in a little black dress...I'm in the gym about 6 times a week. I've trained for 4 Figure Competitions in 2012 but also like other forms of exercise like a quick paced walk through the woods on a trail or through the neighborhood on a chilly night. I am not obsessed with fitness. I'm not SO focused on my body that it's all you hear about, but I am conscious of what I eat daily, find time to exercise to get my mind settled and would love someone that shares the same reasons for maintaining a well lifestyle. I'm looking for someone as gorgeous on the inside as on the outside- I believe in physical attraction and work really hard to keep myself looking my best...so I hope we have that in common.... I've been in a relationship w/a guy that ate pop tarts in the middle of the night and just didn't CARE (arrogance) what he looked like - arrogance doesn't make anyone hot....eating bad food 7 days a week and drinking like a barfly is also not attractive...I would rather be home snuggled up with you on my couch laughing and being home. My point is - we need to be on the same page. It's very important to me.
The hottest part of my guy will be his sense of humor, his generosity and his want and need to protect me as his partner in life, as well as being as loyal to me as I will be to him. I have NO tolerance for lying, cheating or leaving the boundaries of a relationship.
I'm adventurous, but very girly! Can we laugh while rock climbing bc your butt looks really goofy in the harness? Laughing at ourselves and having a blast. How about traveling to a place we've never heard of whether it's ridiculously exotic (Tahiti and Cabo are my dream vaca's) or just a little tiny town in KY just to see what's there for the weekend, always being romantic, affectionate and cuddly wherever we are? Can we have as much fun goofing off doing something silly like yard work (even though this should be outsourced in my opinion:) as we can on a great flight to our next destination?