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Handle:
heartofmercy1
Essay:
I am cancelling my membership. Good luck to all!!! It is hard to sum up a person in mere words. I am much more a face to face person. I am a Christian and tend to be idealistic. I love getting together with family and friends. I would rather meet a person than just sending emails and texts for months. I am not a chronic dater and if someone is interested I often need straight clues. I tend to be very independent and assertive except when it comes to men. I would rather them make the first move. Since I work with kids my "work time" is very hands on and occupied. I don't want someone who is offended that I don't text back right away or answer a call. But once I am committed I put my heart and soul in all I do. I am looking for a relationship with someone who has decided to look for someone that will add to their life. I know life is hard but I want someone who is dedicated to what they want. Has goals and works towards them. I am not on the computer a lot because I work with children and they require my attention. I am on here at night or in the morning. I also like facebook and you can find more about me there. I am laid back in normal relationships. I accept others for who they are and just enjoy meeting people and having a good time. I am passionate about things that affect children and our society. I believe in helping others but I don't believe in enabling people. I am all about teaching people how to fish rather then giving them a lifetime of fish. It is important to have a positive outlook and know that valleys in life are temporary. I am not easily summed up in a few sentences. I can be spontanous and playful and also deep and passionate about life's issues. I am active in my church and desire to foster my relationship with Jesus rather than just checking going to church off a list of what "good christians" do. I am not perfect by any means. I believe we are all here for a purpose. We can choose to be a polluter or purifier by the words we say to ourself and others. Standing firm to your convictions but having an open mind is important. I guess that is why I love working with Kids. They are so real and opinionated. They watch everything. It amazes me how much they pick up and remember. Good luck in your search, Elaine
Gender:
Female
City:
Brentwood
State:
Pennsylvania