I'm hoping to attract a gentleman. I'm looking for a man who likes to cook and have friends over rather than clubbing. I admire intelligence and someone who can make me laugh over the a physical appearance. He'd have to be secure, as in not living at home with a stable job. I work full time and support myself, so I expect the same. I'd also like to find a man who enjoys going to the science or art museum or the zoo. I'm a big movie buff and I read a lot and I play trivia on weekends.