I am a person looking for someone that is caring and honest. I don't want a person who makes themselves to something they are not.. I never really used these dating sites before. I was married for almost 8 years and lost my husband to cancer. I am left to raise our son. I am looking for a friend right now to get me through this rough time for me. And if it leads to more in the future that is fine. I am looking for someone who is okay with a ready made family. I have a house and 7 year old son.