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42 year old woman
Wayne, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
men 38-50
Within:
60 Miles of Wayne, New Jersey, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I am the mother of a gorgeous 6 year old who did not go down the traditional path in life but believes there is still the possibility to find a man that has my same values and begin a more traditional life. Those values are to treat others as you want to be treated. If you want another person to be considerate of your feelings consistently and in their every action, then you should do the same. Hopefully this comes as naturally to you as it does for me. I am a great mother who thinks perhaps I should have had more than 1 child, but due to circumstance and it is what was meant to be and I focus on the postive aspects of our little family. On that note, I am an optimist who believes that if you work hard and treat people well, everything will work out OK in the end, even if you only achieve inner happiness, which really is the most important thing. Please do not be someone who chases fleeting superficial goals, thinking the the ego-trip to "success" is the key to a happy life.

I am a very athletic, health minded person, though I am not obsessive as I do enjoy "bad" food sometimes and love my wine. I intend to look and feel good for my age for the rest of my life. I would like to find someone who would be compatible with me in that respect. I can enjoy with you each and every "male" interest, (except maybe those obsessive sports watching some of you guys have) and it would be nice to find someone that appreciates that. Take the lead and show me your interests, I'm game. Currently I play softball in the spring and summer, and play kickball in the fall. I also do some group personal training classes and love kickboxing. I've tried some Tae Kwon Do via my daughter's instructor and I may do that in the winter.

I have a great career but I do always find it is a constant struggle to get it to a point where I have both good hours and a good environment. I've currently got the good hours, but I'm not thrilled with the office culture, though I have come a long way and have held strong. I am looking for a guy who is successful in in his career as well, since I believe this is who'd be compatible with me. I do love my work and I see the benefits of having a good career; however, I also can see the other side of it and would consider changing my life's course if the man I was with preferred it that way. Though honestly, I don't remember a time where I didn't work. I'd do charity work if I had the chance as this would be more fulfilling and meaningful than working for Corporate America.

I'm a straight shooter and don't play games. However, unlike many opinionated people, I am mindful of people's feelings if their intentions are good, and I certainly don't care to make an issue of things that have no direct importance on mine and my daughter's life. To each his own.

I care for my daughter and home on my own (100% of the time), therefore, I take dating very seriously. I'd like to take things slow, considering that we are meeting as strangers on the internet. It's very important to me for us to get to know each other as well as possible before we pressure ourselves to make a romantic connection happen immediately. I am seeking a partner for life. The bottom line is that I believe I have a lot to offer to someone, and I just ask for a passionate, independent thinking, thoughtful, caring man. It has eluded me to find someone that brings a lot to the table, brings no drama, and in addition to having that chemisty and attraction between us. Is it impossible to find for me? Perhaps, but I still have hope. Can you be the one?

Interests:
Camping, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Golf, Inline skating, Skiing, Soccer, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Birds, Fish
Pet Essay:

I have a fish that greets people at the door and I recently got an adorable lovebird.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey, Newark, Newark, NJ
For fun:

As my daughter gets older, I want to ski, hike and golf with her, some of the things I've had to table since I've had her.

Favorite hot spots:

Wildwood, Lake George area, New Hope, NJ area. Planning to go soon to Disney for the food and wine festival. I'd like to go to Napa. Enjoy Chart House and other fancy resteraunts for birthdays.

Favorite things:

I like to pretend I am on vacation when I am not working. I like being out in nature. I like classical and meditative music. My TV habits are also escapist, love sushi

Last read:

I read my local town paper in case there are events going on that I want to check out. I also read books about and research a lot of things on the internet that have to do with self improvement.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Moderately
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Financial / Accounting / Real Estate
No preference

I do state taxes for a huge company. I love the work, believe it or not.

Income:
I'll tell you later
$100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian

I am 1/2 German and 1/2 Cuban...and my daughter has about 8 things going on.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
No preference

I am very open and don't think there is any right way to be spiritual. Having the same religion is absolutely not important to me. I just started taking my daughter to Sunday School at the church I've been connected to since birth

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

bachelors in accounting, masters in Tax. I believe there is equal value to someone business saavy without formal education and also someone who is handy around the house - very attractive

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