I am not shallow - I am petite and fit. I exercise regularly and love the nature/outdoors. I definitely like a man who is active and love outdoors. Even physical attraction is not everything in a relationship, it is important.
I am not a workaholic - I went to graduate school and am working for a prestigious company in town. In fact, I just moved to Houston. I find a man that can carry intelligent conversation, not in a very proud way, is irresistible.
I am not liberal - I grew up in a traditional Chinese family. After years of trying to be rebellious from the traditions of a very mysterious culture, I now find that traditional values are the key to be a kind person. I love people around me. The simplest kindness can make me melt.
Being said these, I do think the essential to love someone is to accept and embrace who she/he is, for all the cute qualities and the shortcomings. I will do the same and I expect the same in return.