I enjoy playing basketball and working out. I'm a movie buff (mainstream and quality indies). I've developed a taste for exploring the world that I lacked when I was a bit younger. I am always seeking to improve myself. I do so by reading and also by involving myself in community activities. I'm a great listener and communicator. I work in a technical field, but I am a very creative person. I also enjoy listening to music.
What I'm looking for is a kind, caring woman. There needs to be a mutual attraction, of course, but I want to be able to have fun with her, go on adventures, and have great conversation. I'm looking for someone who, like me. doesn't sweat the small stuff (or at least tries not to).
I think a good first date should provide the opportunity for both parties to converse and learn about one another while providing a diversion to ease the tension. Carnivals work for this, as does something as simple as miniature golf.