I enjoy working hard and playing hard. I am a native Washingtonian and work in commercial real estate. Most would describe me fiercely loyal, funny, and caring; I am blessed with a wonderful group of friends and family. I am usually the catalysis for entertainment and certainly know how to have a great time. Honestly, I am tired of settling and not connecting. I am at the point of my life where I am looking for someone I can spend quality time with and who I can learn from. I am looking for someone with the following contradictions..... Someone who knows themselves and is practical yet dreaming, laid-back but obsessed, beautiful without trying, non-judgmental but knows what she wants, non-low-self-esteeming, unprepossessing, materialistic yet generous, laughing while aware of the gravity of the situation, non-game-playin', sexually uninhibited yet ladylike, svelte but roundish, able to eat ice cream and not think she's fat, has too many shoes but not so many shoe stores, high rollin yet charmin, around the world in eighty days'n drinkin buddy, arm wrestler, bookworm, listens to my stupid stories tells me her stupid stories, initiates but knows when to lie back and enjoy herself, mysterious yet revealing, wants to be rich and yet contribute to the greater good through her endeavors, someone who likes the Simpsons' & Sixty Minutes alike.