I am 49 years young and find myself alone at this stage in life. I lost my husband to an aggressive cancer that we fought together and lost. I am rebuilding my life as I choose, with optimism, a light heart and the knowledge of what true love is all about.
My accomplishments are many, I laugh alot, I am a happy person who just wants some companionship and possibly that great love that I lost. I believe there is more than one person who enters your life and can be that special one. I believe that impossible things are possible. I try to avoid negativity whenever possible.
I believe people who bring other down should be avoided. I cheer for the underdog and I love to live. I am hoping to attract a smart, sexy to me, man who is comfortable being himself and not trying to impress me because he is impressive in his own right. He should be comfortable with himself and able to show by actions not words. My social life is whatever I make it. I am passionate about life, my work, my daughter (18) and son (13) are the most important people to me. My son is always needing rides somewhere and setting knothole records all over the west side of Cincinnati.
I am not going to give you a list of every single little detail I am looking for in a man. People who make those lists are wishing for the impossible Mr. Perfect. I just gave you an idea of what I would like to see and you will bring to the table yourself. Just as I am not perfect and wouldn't be able to love up to that kind of standard. The only basic requirement is you must like 13 year old boys and sports. If you enjoy music (no rap stuff)
and dancing all the better. I am happy with my life now, settling into a single solitude whereas there is always room for someone in my life. I keep my heart open. Need a man who does the same. Also I will tell you what I think. Not always what you expect to hear. It will be my truthful opinion. No games and no plays or drama.