I am a very honest person and this is very important to me in a relationship. I would like to get to know someone and be good friends and possibly more. I enjoy the outdoors and being on the lake. I am also perfectly content hanging out with friends or having a nice meal on the deck (in the summer) talking and enjoying the company. I enjoy a nice quite evening with a special person, bottle of wine, and a movie. I am not into the bar scene but once in a while it's fun if I am with friends. I have 3 children and love to spend time with them two of them are in college and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.. I have a good job and keep my time there to about 40 hours per week. Down time is important to me and this also gives me time to spend with family and friends. The reason I am here is the same reason most people are here, it is really hard to meet people and going to bars for that reason is not my idea of a good night out.I am very open to meeting all kinds of people. The outside is important but not as important as what is on the inside. One of the most important traits I am looking for is honesty.