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46 year old man
Winter Park, Florida, United States

Seeking:
women 35-50
Within:
15 Miles of Winter Park, Florida, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm looking to make a connection with a smart, funny, athletically oriented, confident woman.

I think I've reached a point in my life where I know what I personally need to have a successful, lasting, loving, committed relationship. In part I think I've found this in myself because of my kids, but also because of the relationships I've had, self-reflection and reading. I have my boys half-time, and love them deeply. They have taught me how to listen and be patient and be nurturing.

I see things in trinities:
Friendship/partnership. I want a partner and friend, someone with whom I can laugh, cook, explore, confide and enjoy a music filled road trip. Enjoying the little moments that otherwise mean nothing special, like folding laundry together, can be amazing. I want to be known and to discover the true you. To build trust and love.

Communication/nurturing. Compassion and recognition of our fundamental human dignity in communication is critical. We listen as well as speak. I want to have my own goals that you support, and that you have your own goals that I support, and shared goals that we work toward together. I want to reach a point where every single day we take at least some small amount of time to connect with each other. Turn off or turn down the quotidian bs that fill our lives and simply connect. It's amazing how wrapped up in pointless distractions we can become. I see a trinity within this: there's you, me and the third thing that is us. All three components need care and attention.

Mind-blowing intimacy. I don't have a "type" to whom I'm attracted, but physical attraction needs to be present so that the door to a deeper, spiritual connection can be open, because physical intimacy ideally becomes an expression of the deeper, open-hearted connection you feel for each other. I want to be the best lover I can possibly be for my partner, and want her to have the same goal for me. Kissing and more kissing.

As Rob Bell says: "It’s easy to take off all your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams.. Now that’s being naked."

That's what I want to work toward, but that's not what I'm expecting immediately. For starters I'd like to get to know you, see if we can make each other laugh, and just be open to what's possible.

Other details:
Religion doesn't play a role in my life, but I don't mind if it does in yours.

My two boys are a top priority for me, and while I am looking for a serious relationship, I won't want to bring a potential partner into their lives for a while, so you'd have to be comfortable with not seeing me during the times when they're with me (I have them half-time), until it seems like we have something stable and healthy going on.

I like exploring area restaurants, going to movies, art exhibits, concerts, and working out. I work out usually 5 times per week, but perhaps ironically, don't care to watch sports on television. At all.

I'm relatively new in town, so am building my base of friendships and do want to get out more. I do have a sense of humor and am quick to laugh, with a healthy dose of playfulness. I am also completely happy to nerd it up.

I'm pretty well-travelled and lived in Europe for 5 years. There's still PLENTY more to see and do, though, both here and abroad.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Pisces
College:
University of Minnesota, Twin Cities Campus, Minneapolis, MN
For fun:

I lavish attention on my 2 amazing sons. I'm studying French. I'm training for some obstacle course races, and that means I mix a lot of exercise in my week, from Bikram yoga to Boot Camp . An occasional movie or concert. I need to get out more! Help

Favorite hot spots:

I like Dandelion Cafe, Dexter's, Enzian, any place that serves spicy food...

Favorite things:

When I watch tv for myself, I regularly enjoy Parks & Recreation, The Office, Mad Men, Breaking Bad and a few others. With my boys, I'm instructing them on the nuances of Star Wars and superheroes.

Last read:

The Best American Science Writing of 2011.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Blonde
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
No preference
Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

Euro-mutt with an emphasis on Irish and German.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Tolerant, with a view of spirituality informed by lots of reading and reflection.

Languages:
English, French, Other
English
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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