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Do you want a soul connection? I desire both compatibility AND "chemistry." I like to have fun, but I also want depth.

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61 year old man
Anaheim, California, United States

Seeking:
women 52-62
Within:
25 Miles of Mission Viejo, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Well... I'm back on "match" after a long hiatus. (hence the "50 man" username.) Not surprisingly, my old member profile was still here. Yet, I was surprised to find that it was still accurate. Although turning 50 really made that old profile quite philosophical, the following content still fits:

Through much experience, learning, and growth (i.e. heartache), I find myself having grown into a balanced view of life. That is to say I can embrace life's many continuums. Which means that I can be:
-Romantic, yet pragmatic;
-Discriminating, yet accepting;
-Opinionated, yet open minded;
-At times "on a mission", yet also "easy going;"
-Vulnerable when safe, yet strong as necessary;
-Respecting others' autonomy, yet loving intimacy;
-Enjoying spontaneity, yet knowing the need to have reservations for the best venues; and
-Understanding the rewards of "doing", yet able to enjoy the peace and contentment of just "being."

See what I mean by philosophical. But it's still me.

So where am I now? My kids are out of the house, and I am now enjoying my 4 wonderful Grandchildren. I am (mostly) content. Yet I've again become open and desirous to find a "significant other".

What would that relationship be like? That has never changed through the years... I'm looking for compatibility AND attraction/chemistry. And I further narrow the odds by wanting: good communication, honesty, acceptance, and the capacity for increasing levels of commitment as things progress.

Now in 2013, I wish to add a few more descriptors (and since I just posted photos for the first time, hopefully also limiters for those who actually read this stuff). :

I have loved "traveling and seeing the world," but at this point in my life, there is more than enough "fun and adventure" for me in California. And with the right person, it could be anywhere, or nowhere. I wish/need to continue working 3-4 days a week (with maybe a couple weeks in Hawaii or ??). I am "financially secure" in many ways, but not ready to retire. And I DO WANT to meet only those in Orange County, CA.. :-)

My "Faith" is listed as "Christian / Other". That IS the best designation for me. I am a Christian, with extensive past involvement with OC churches and ministries. And I do attend a few churches on occasion, for various reasons or needs. But, the better descriptor for me would be "Spiritual, but not religious," yet on this site that is simply a "common default answer." My daily communication with God is a real and vital part of my existence. "I am a spiritual being having a human experience."

Finally, I realize it takes time to really get to know someone.. At the same time, when a relationship isn't going to last, I have usually realized it early on. I know too well that there are a lot of truly wonderful, and amazingly attractive, women out there. But at this point in my life, I'm looking only for those with a possibility of developing into the "rest of my life".

Ok then, lets see how THAT limits this search traffic. :-).





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Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Cycling, Dancing, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I love dogs. My last died of old age, and she will be hard to replace. I like cats, but I'm allergic to some and have yet to figure out which ones. I have had/like birds. Horses seem great; but I've never had the chance to get into them.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I'm a water person. I'm drawn to the ocean and beach or mountain rivers and lakes. Might we enjoy biking, boating, sailing, fishing, skiing (liguid or frozen), hiking or walking? A gourmet dinner with a great wine also works well in those settings

Favorite hot spots:

An afternoon beach bike ride and lunch. Evening restaurants with great food AND ambiance, preferably a view. A good band helps for dancing after. Weekend drives to Arrowhead/Big Bear, Mammoth/June, or just up the coast. Hawaii, tropical islands.

Favorite things:

Love that special red meat indulgence, or actually all types of great food paired with the right wine (and good company). Movies= any GOOD movie (NO occultic or chainsaw massacres) And yes: romantic/comedies. Music?- have/like 700 CDs (but NOT rap)

Last read:

"The Myth of Certainty" and "The Primitive Edge of Experience" were my 50 yr. old listings, and they are still favorites. More recently: Steve Jobs Biography and a couple of predictable ones from Nicholas Sparks. Liking escape, but newspaper daily.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Moderately
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

My profession is the main reason that I don't post publicly viewed photos. On request, I will explain. And I will be happy to send current photos to you specifically. Correction: I have posted some for a limited time.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
No
No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian
Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

I've sensed the spiritual side of life for as long as I can remember. I'm not currently attending any particular church, but have been in leadership of a few during the past decades. I am focusedly open to God's presence and wisdom guiding me daily

Languages:
English
English
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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