Hi i am a divorced 40 year old that have 2 kids 19 and 18 and its been almost a year now since my divorce and feel its a good time to start looking seriously for a companion to share life with. ok about me i am energetic, passionate, optimistic, somewhat intelligent , light hearted, whimsical at times, free spirited, funny, and so on blah blah blah. to critique oneself is kinda hard especially if your critical of yourself . in other words im far from perfect and will always try to improve myself. i must have been doing something wrong or i would not be divorced and am not afraid to admit i take 50% of the blame. i guess what i am trying to say is i am trying to approach life differently a new me i guess. ok things i like to do for fun i like to pretty much play any sports or sports related activities. i like to play cards , board games, computer gaming , movies, sporting events, malling, getting in a car and taking a trip to nowhere till i get there then im somewhere. i enjoy amusement parks, love outdoor stuff and beaches or swimming, parks , museums, zoos, and on and so on. ok what im looking for in a woman is a woman that is open minded, sincere, caring, and able to communicate there feelings openly . other then that the rest will work itself out if there is a connection.