I am a person who has seen and experienced a lot from life. I can be optomistic and sometimes pesimistic. I can laugh one minute and cry the next. I am real and down to earth. I am very nice and generally kind to people unless you push my buttons. Which is hard. I tend to be shy at first but then come out full swing. I don't really get into the usual gay scene. I prefer guys who are more straight acting and don't define their life by who they have sex with. I have many quirks which can be funny when you get to know me but bottom line is I am who I am. I thought I had found love at one point in my life but it didn't work out for some reason. Not sure why. I do believe in karma and fate. I take awhile to trust someone and falling in love isn't something I take lightly.