I am a mother, daughter, sister and friend – in that order. I am a relatively simple woman. I believe that little things mean a lot and small gestures go a long way. In my eyes a $5 bouquet of flowers from the market “just because” means a lot more than a $100 bouquet of roses for Valentine’s Day. I try to accentuate the positive and not dwell on the negative and see my glass as half full rather than half empty.
I enjoy chill time with my family and the few people that make up my circle of friends – doesn’t matter whether it’s a Saturday afternoon bbq, Sunday dinner, or a grown-ups game night. A few things that I enjoy are cooking, shopping, dinner out, and movies. Can’t call myself a sports fan, but I have no issue with watching an event. I don’t consider myself religious, but I am definitely a spiritual person and believe that all things, good or bad, happen for a reason.
I am confident, independent and forward thinking. I can be serious when it’s time to take care of business, but can switch gears and just be silly at times. I like for my point to be heard and will definitely get it across, but I can also listen and consider other’s points of view. Also, in a disagreement, I don’t have a problem admitting fault or offering an apology if I am wrong.
I am real. I don’t do the fake hair, fake lashes etc. Any long hair photos you see of me were taken prior to May when I decided to get a summer cut! I do wear a little makeup sometimes, but for enhancement - I’m not trying to transform!
While I am not opposed to making new friends, let’s face it, we didn’t join Match with the purpose of just finding a chill buddy. Although, if that’s what works out it’s fine. The man who gets my attention will, first of all, catch my eye through his posted photo – I’m not superficial, but I like what I like and want to like what I see; A nice smile (& teeth!) is priceless. The man who KEEPS my attention will be a person of substance. He’ll be a person with integrity, honest, and easy to talk to. He’ll also be self-confident (not arrogant), ambitious and forward thinking and won’t be threatened by my own strength and confidence. Since communication is a key component in any good relationship, I’d expect anyone that I meet to be willing and able to communicate effectively with me.
If we should get to the point of a conversation, we’ll see whether meeting seems like a mutually beneficial option; if not, thanks for reading my profile.