I am outgoing, easy to get along with, love to go out dancing or bowling but can just as easily stay in and watch some good TV. I am not ashamed to admit I love TV and am actually put off by the kind of people who think they are too good for it. To them I say, too bad, you are missing out on some funny stuff. I mean how great is Community? I am have had some very interesting experiences with online dating, some funny, some downright irritating, but all can be chalked up to life's experiences.
My perfect match, hmmm... I would say someone who is witty, educated, and can carry on a good conversation. Good looking is a plus, a great sense of humor is a double plus, honest and is charming in a non-cheesy way. A person who is looking for a relationship but can maintain their own independence.
I am not interested in someone who is unwillingly to post a pictures, it is only fair as I have posted mine. I don't buy the it shouldn't matter what the person looks like line, because let's face it, it all starts with attraction. To me unwillingness to post pictures is a red flag, even if you don't intend it to be. I am also not interested in meeting someone twenty years or more older than me; I have a very good relationship with my dad, I am not looking for another one. I am not trying to be mean, just honest.