I have a job, a vehicle, and a license to drive said vehicle. I'm not a felon or drug addict. (I don't get bent about pot smoking. I just don't do it.) What more could you possibly want?? I also have a pretty good sense of humor. (as long as you're not opposed to dark, dry, and sarcastic humor. I'm an equal opportunity offender!) I can cook and bake, both pretty well, although I don't do either often because there's not much sense in doing all that for one person and a cat. I can also clean, but it's not my strongest attribute. How can someone with such a dirty mind possibly be expected to keep a clean house? ;) I can be a bit of a handful... don't be fooled. I like to have a good time!
I love horror movies and ghost stories. I don't watch much television, but I like American Horror Story. I also enjoy watching youtube videos about deep space, black holes, stars, and Quantum Theory. I don't understand much of that stuff but like to ponder the possibilities! I smoke cigarettes. I like to drink Jack on the weekends and sing & dance and be a little rowdy. Sometimes I am sad or mad or frustrated and I cry. Yup. I'm a real person.
I don't need someone to support me financially. I'm very thoughtful, caring, and supportive. I would like to find someone who would treat me that way as well. I'm a bit high maintenance, but not in the typical whiney-buy me stuff kind of way. I want someone to spend time with me and treat me like I'm an important part of their life, is happy to see me at the end of the day and will sometimes do things they aren't really interested in just because they want to spend time with me. Oh, I'm sooo horrible! I should add that these are things I also do for someone that I'm in a relationship with.
I have a small group of friends that I am very close to. My best friend and I have known each other 25 years or so. He is a gay male. I have several gay/lesbian friends, so it is essential that anyone I'm in a relationship with is accepting of them.
I've tried on-line dating before with very little success. The part that is difficult for me is getting to know or dating more than one person at a time. That's just not how I am. I suppose that's a good thing in a way. I also feel that it is emotionally draining to get to know someone, tell them about myself, find out they're not really interested or we're not compatible then start the process over. Has anyone else had this experience?
In the end, I'm looking for a long term relationship with someone who wants to share their life with another person, start a family, and make a home. I realise that this is something that takes time, but I would like to start by getting to know someone who is looking for the same thing.