Ok "here it goes"! The process of dating "SMH", "I hate it". Despise it. If the perfect man "for me".. Emphasis on "perfect for me" "would fall out the sky "I would absolutely "help him , brush him off" and he would be all mine. Unfortunately this frame of thinking isn't even logic, "here I am taking the step to put myself out there. I don't like it however "it feels so good to have that one person that at the end of my hard day "that I look forward to enjoy conversations with, laugh and simply let my hair down". I am not looking for anyone seeking to "impress me". I require a MUST that u be yourself. Neither of us will be without our own flaws but if we can be honest & laugh commit to understanding one another "first being in friendship ", we will find whether we fit or find that we are a total mess and you go ur way & I go mine free of judgement I have been very disappointed & hurt in past relationships simply by others in ability to "be truthful". None of us come with Manuel's "while I'd like to say SOME SHOULD! I do not come with any type of Manuel. Even if I did "the first instruction would be.... BE HONEST. My motto is "u are an adult "if u by chance screw up" ( and u may) JUST OWN IT! I am a big girl and although I may not like it , " I'll deal with it".. If its a lie, "eventually it will surface". Anything done in the dark eventually exposed. I'd much rather be given the opportunity to decide for "myself" if I choose to deal with it rather than face a lie realize its a lie, "and dismiss you from my life. A lie is a lie even if u want to assign it colors. If our connection goes no further then friendships , " that is only an option void of deception. I strive to "always treat people the way I want to be treated. I tend to have a huge heart which has so often been taken for granted. I am who I am and I will not allow the mistakes or dishonesty of past relationship categorize "All men". We all are individual , we respond , process, react differently. That's why I say , "it is what it is". It will be what it will be. Laughter is a must Anyone who has the ability to laugh from their flaws can certainly grow with me in mine. Lol. So if u are able to be urself plz feel free to contact me. I am very laid back. Mother of 3 sons ages 22, 13, 10. I am very close to my sons. I recognize my sons as gifts each day is a blessing. I am free of drama. I don't deal with "baby momma drama" so if u have any please keep it. Lol. I do work very long hours in health care. So if u have time for a friendship and good conversation feel free.