I consider my self a contradiction. I like the girly things in life like feminine clothes, high heels, flowers, makeup for example but I am not afraid of, nor a stranger to hard physical work and getting dirty. I own high heels and a chain saw. I adore my two children. One is on her own and one I share with his dad. I am looking for a best friend to explore with. Someone who values my independence but can make me feel taken care of. Again a contradiction, l don't need to be taken care of but want to feel like I am. I want someone willing and able to discuss anything. Someone with a good work ethic and good morals. Someone who values family and friends.