It actually pretty simple. I'd like to meet someone who I make feel special and she makes me feel special. AIts s the relationship continues, I need honesty and loyalty (it doesn't all have to come out on the first date). I absolutely give that and expect the same. I think I'm pretty flexible after that. The rest is chemistry. No drugs, no psychos, no users. If the relationship sparks, the rest all falls into place. If you fall for someone, going out is great, staying home can be as thrilling. Exciting times and quiet times all blend into a wonderful relationship with each other. A wonderful candle lit dinner and dancing afterwards, a Broadway play, or cooking together after a day at work and we give each other foot rubs or back rubs on the couch. Someone who wants to talk about today, think about tomorrow and beyond. I would love to find someone who likes holding hands when we walk, walking with our arms around each other at the right time.