Imagine a Korean-American French teacher--poker player with a dreamer heart, that would sum me up in a nutshell.
I'd love to say that I was athletic because those people who love the outdoors sound so cool and are great to hang out with but in reality, I'm kind of the movie-going type, who likes good wine, seafood and papaya salad. (Although I broke my leg hiking last year and was grateful for the help of all of those good-hearted hikers who helped me out!)
I am not a mystery and I wear my heart completely on my sleeve. My teacher friends say that sometimes I need to censor my vocabulary though because not everyone wants to know everything you're thinking all of the time.
I go to France at least once a year and hope to meet someone who has a passion of traveling like I do. I'd go more often but I miss my two boys too much.
I'm looking for "real." I meet people constantly but am not instantly attracted to the types who would hit on me. I seek more reserved individuals who like one on one conversations, small groups of people, movies, poker, travel and children. Nothing is an absolute deal breaker because I try to get to really know someone, inside and out. The soul, heart and intentions are most important. Don't get me wrong, physical chemistry is definitely a must too but I think that comes quickly if the personality is golden.
My "dream" man would be a Norwegian look (French, British, German or with an accent), romantic, funny, very intelligent, poker-playing, movie-going, wine-drinking, educated professional. Is that asking alot? But, a guy who is willing to treat me right is all I want. Want is the key word, not need because I pride myself on taking care of myself and my boys. Independance should be sexy to men, not scary.
