I'm an open-minded freethinker and I would like to meet someone who is an open-minded freethinker. I openly admit I need to lose a few pounds, as I've put on some weight since these pictures were taken. I do not care for dogma (living with the results of other peoples' thinking). I'm open to being rationally persuaded, but not manipulated. Not in a hurry to get married. Friends or Friends Plus is ok with me. I do not smile a lot; but, don't mistake that as me not being happy or friendly. It's just the Autism and yes, I am a bit shy. I do not like being the center of attention and I'm not the life of the party. I do have a sense of humor and I don't mind laughing at myself. I'm currently in a bit of a holding pattern as I await my Disability Hearing. This has come about due to my Asperger's Disorder (Autism), PTSD, and severe back problems. I would like a woman who can accept me for who I am. If you want to get to know me do not change who I am. 'Cause like an angel without wings, I will be just.........another man. While I don't have a particular type of woman in mind, I prefer someone who is smarter and wiser than me. Perhaps someone who is a bit older than me, or at least more agressive and more of a decisive go-getter than me. I want someone who has a plan, and I want to help you succeed in carrying-out your plan. I can be your helper. You are awesome the way that you are and I would never try to change that. I'm all for my woman going out and having fun without me being there with her all the time. You don't need my approval to have fun. I particularly think ladies nites out (no boyfriends allowed) are important for you to have. Every woman needs a chance to be free of her man and to just cut-loose sometimes. If you are looking for a man with a lot of money, I am sure to be a disappointment to you.