First of all there is no such thing as a perfect match.I'm lookng for a partner, someone to grow old with. Someone to share and experience things with.Some one who is their own person in their own right, who's personality, talents, skills, goals,needs, and desires compliment my own not over shadow or consume. And vise versa.Part of being a successful couple is knowing your own strengths and weaknesses, and being able to communicate these in an effective manner to a partner.
Gentlemen,
I want a companion, a lover, a partner,a friend. I am not looking for someone I have to change, babysit, raise, or complete.If that sounds callouse and cold I apologize.However, it doesn't diminish the fact that I am looking for my partner, my mate. A man that is as comfortable in his skin as I am in mine.I'm looking for someone to walk side by side with me through life. To love as I am loved. To respect as I am respected. To cherish and honor as I am cherished and honored.Someone to laugh with in good times and in bad. A man that will not try to crush my dreams, or bind my spirit because he knows that by doing this he would change me, and he wants me just as I want him,to be exactly who and what he is at any given time, or moment. I'm looking for a man that understands that women re-invent themselves every few months or so, and he's ok with it.Who isn't afraid to say," Let's not do that again to your hair please"and be confident that I will not because I know that although he doesn't mind the re-invention, there are still things that he prefers about the "factory"model. The one image he was first attracted to, fell in love with and so on.That's where communication and give and take come in.Changing and growing together not apart.
