First and foremost my son is the biggest most important thing in my life and if anyone ever plans on being a part of mine has to be willing to (in time) be a part of his. I am big on family and spend a lot of time with them. I have my son daily but he goes with his father on every other weekend so when I have that free time I like to go out with friends and do anything that I am unable to do with him. although I just moved out to Lakewood and found that most of my "friends" weren't really friends at all so I have been staying home a lot more just relaxing with a beer and a book. I have been single for almost a year now and have only recently really felt ready to meet someone and see what happens. I am pretty independent and am looking for someone who can give me something that I cannot give myself. I want to feel valued and cared about. I want someone who is OK with staying home on a Friday night but will also want to go out dance and be silly. I like to go camping and hiking but never really have anyone to go with.