Being the oldest child (and oldest grandchild), I have all of the typical oldest child traits (over-achieving, people-pleasing tendencies). I have a great job that I love, but it keeps me very busy. I have my law degree and an MA in school psychology. I nurture my interests in politics, photography and piano, when I find the time. I also love to cook and travel - and, like most, enjoy the proverbial long walk on the beach. I am passionate about the pro-life movement. The most important trait I look for is integrity. I could only be with someone who lives in a manner that is consistent with what he believes. Someone simultaneously gentle and strong.