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I am complex in my simplicity. Straight - No Chaser! I celebrate authenticity!

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41 year old woman
Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Seeking:
men 33-52
Within:
50 Miles of Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I am a high energy, very friendly, always smiling, but hard working and no-nonsense woman. I have a very dry wit and am apparently very funny if you listen to my friends tell the story.

I am impressed by a combination of humility and intelligence. When I meet people who are very intelligent I take it as a learning opportunity. (just because someone is formally educated does not mean that they are intelligent and vice-versa). I want someone who values being in a committed relationship and being part of a family unit and who realizes if you ask for a smart woman - she's going to have an opinion.

I am a life chess player - ie I like to try to think as many steps ahead as I can. So I am looking for a mate that is financially responsible (good credit, planning for retirement, etc.). I am looking for a mate that is physically responsible (committed to staying in shape and eating healthy). Did I mention how sexy a great sense of humor is?

Helping others, volunteering, mentoring, and purposeful acts of kindness are a part of my every day. It would be great - not to mention crazy attractive to find a man who strives to make a difference in the world. I like people who are very capable. They either know how to do something personally or know who to call or where to look to get it done. I have a daughter and I love being a mother. I want a man who appreciates the detail-oriented and time demanding nature of parenting.

I am an extremely logical person who has often been accused of being complex in my simplicity. Hence I like clear and effective communicators who are able to back up their opinions and viewpoints with facts and rationale without feeling threatened or defensive. I like men who know how to celebrate the quirks and wonderful things that make me – ME (a drive and passion for people and life – not things).

I have a lot of love to give to the right person. I am compassionate and forgive very easily. It hurts me to hurt other people. If you are a Prince fan maybe you remember these lyrics. "If I were your girlfriend - would you run to me if somebody hurt you - even if that somebody was me." I value empathy - an ability to recognize and be pained by knowing your actions or words have caused someone else hurt.

I want a mature relationship with a man who inspires me to work hard to please him and whom I inspire in the same way. I am not looking for a man to complete me - but to compliment me. I am very open about the type of person that I am and my expectations and desires. I don't like to make people work to know my needs. So I am searching for an authentic man who is not perfect, but is sublimely perfect for me with all of his wonderful qualities and imperfections.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing cards, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Running, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Other
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Cancer
College:
Duke University, Durham, NC
For fun:

I am a huge movie buff and I like to watch my favorite movies over and over again. Just to name a few (Armageddon, Rush Hour, Bad Boys II, Gladiator, Iron Man, Serendipity, Love and Basketball, Mr. Mrs. Smith, 16 Candles)

Favorite hot spots:

My favorite restaurants are Houston's, Matchbox (they have the best pizza!!), and Lauriol Plaza. I love to travel and my favorite party city is Rome.

Favorite things:

Favorite books: The Fountainhead ~Ayn Rand, The 5 Love Languages ~Gary Chapman, The Harry Potter series. Favorite shows: Scandal, Shameless, Grey's Anatomy, Homeland, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, and The Avatar: The Last Airbender

Last read:

The Hunger Games Series - articles on literacy strategies for elementary students.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

I attend church regularly (although not every Sunday) and strive daily to be a better person based on Christian values. I believe that Jesus Christ is my Lord & Savior.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

BA - Duke University (Psychology)
JD - University of Southern California

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