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In my younger and more vulnerable years, my father gave me some advice I've been turning over in my head ever since.

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28 year old man
Haverford, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking:
women 23-28
Within:
Miles of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I am a young, gentlemanly renaissance man who has many hobbies and intellectual curiosities. I litigate for a living, though I cannot say with certainty that I will be an attorney forever. I used to be a radio film critic in the American South, where I was reared. I am accent-less, so people are often skeptical of my roots. I have a great passion for literature, and am always in pursuit of my next read. I am also a concert pianist, but ironically prefer not to perform except for friends and family. I enjoy running, gourmet cooking, art museums, architecture, racquet sports (all 4), stimulating conversation, chess, urban adventures, skiing, and spending time with family and friends. All 100% true. By now, if I were you, I'd be salivating. I have a wonderful relationship with my parents and sister (which according to psychiatric research, means I'm more likely to treat you well), and am looking for a woman for whom family is important. I'm aware this is a fairly shocking development.

Penultimately, I am looking for someone who does not necessarily have the same interests or taste as me, but someone who has her own ideas and beliefs about which she is passionate. I value people who have gumption--who step outside of their comfort zones. I dislike the term "southern hospitality," but an am equal opportunity practitioner of its basic premise. If you ever engage in zany (or at least non-weather related) conversations with strangers in elevators, lines at grocery stores, or on SEPTA, we're probably operating on similar wavelengths. This stems from sincere curiosity rather than an unbearably sunny disposition.

My Goal: to meet someone interesting who wants to grab an innocent cup of coffee, see a good film, go to a book group that isn't reading "Gone Girl," or have an illuminating conversation about an array of fascinating topics over a sumptuous meal at one of Philadelphia's great restaurants. This whole process strikes me as similar to blind dating only we're setting it up. I realize how idiotically that sentence reads, but this is undeniably more enigmatic than organic, face-to-face meetings. Like a well-manicured bonsai tree, I prefer the idea of starting small with very few expectations for the immediate future, and then reeling in disbelief at how beautiful our relationship is once it has matured from the seedling of friendship.

If you're not scoffing at my prose or wondering if I'm self absorbed (and, in turn, concluding that my narcissism is why a real catch like me is not married with children), please message me and rest assured that I don't always wax poetic as I've done here.

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Golf, Running, Skiing, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I co-habitate with an adorable, small Corgi puppy named Stu. He's very docile, but also no-nonsense in his approach to life. I like sociable cats, but have never lived with one.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
University of Georgia, Athens, GA
For fun:

running, kayaking, road-trips, concerts, moviegoing, Scrabble and Bananagrams, conversation, jam sessions, woodworking, museum hopping, beaches, blogging, reading, competitive dinner parties, learning about new things.

Favorite hot spots:

London, Maine, Richmond, VA ("home-home"), The Cape, rural Costa Rica, Vail, my backyard, the YMCA, various used bookstores and record stores, Ritz Theaters, intimate concert venues, both the serenity of the country and the bustle of the city.

Favorite things:

Joanna Newsom, Madvillain, Talking Heads, films of Truffaut, Allen, Sturges and von Trier, Alma De Cuba, Distrito, Cochon, Hammocks, Whiskey, Wanderlust, Modern Art, Power Naps, Power Tools, Real Pianos and Roland Digitals, Personal Libraries.

Last read:

Novels: Angle of Repose (Stegner), Speak Memory (Nabokov), The Recognitions (Gaddis), 2666 (Bolano), Who Owns Death (Lifton), The Round House (Erdrich), Another Day in the Frontal Lobes (Firlik), Harper's Magazine, The Economist. Must Like to Read :)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Legal
No preference

estate litigation.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Agnostic
No preference

but respectful and sincerely persuadable when it comes to other beliefs.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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