i have no idea. i think if we all knew what we wanted from another person it would be so simple and we wouldn't need to go "searching" because it would be right there! right!? i i like the different types of people, but not so different that you can't mesh into society when needed. i like those who have an opinion and can argue it and not be afraid to be defeated by mine!! lol i would also add a good communicator. im the kind of person that needs to know where i stand, wrong, right, good bad or ugly and i will offer you the same respect. we all wear our big kid panties and need to address eachother w/o sugar coating everything all the time. i appreciate the real!