DISCLOSURE: By viewing this profile, you agree not to be seeking a douchebag, creep, pervert, loser, user, psychopath, cheater or moron. If you are seeking such qualities in a man, please click that mouse to the next page as I am definitely not your guy!
Face it, we all get tired of sleeping alone. We all want someone and we're all willing to do something about it by leaving the sidelines and entering the game. Sure, we're probably going to strike out a few times before we get some hits or, ultimately, a home run, but that's just part of the process. As Mary Chapin Carpenter says, sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug, sometimes you're the Louisville Slugger, sometimes you're the ball.
I'm a cut-and-dried, straight forward kind of guy. What you see is what you get. No nonsense, no b.s., no drama, no games. I've been told by about a billion people (give or take) that I'm a great guy. So, who am I to argue with a billion people? I've been called sweet by more than one woman, so I guess I'll wear that as a badge of honor. Yes, I have a heart of gold, much like my parents and other relatives, and even though it's gotten me burned and hurt a few times, I'm confident that in the end I'll be rewarded for it. If we don't keep the faith and believe that goodness eventually wins out, we might as well just throw in the towel and let dating sites like this go out of business!
I'm financially stable and enjoy traveling. I go to a lot of different concerts (country, pop, rock). If an act comes through town,chances are I'll go see them. I love all kinds of music, old and new. I'll go see Springsteen or Bieber. I've been to five Super Bowls and seven World Series, five Stanley Cup Finals, a few All Star Games, a couple presidential inaugurations, numerous bowl games and many other things. Life exists as a form of pleasure, not a burden. Seize your opportunities and have no regrets. I like taking a woman out for a nice dinner, to a concert, ball game, theater performance, etc. I'm not a cheapskate who won't spend money on you. I am a baseball junkie and attend as many games as I can. The ballpark experience is therapeutic for me, allowing for time to relax, think and enjoy the atmosphere of people enjoying themselves.
I'm looking for someone who I can trust. I'm an extremely loyal person. If I'm with you, I've got your back, and I expect you to have mine. That's just the way it has to be. Liars irritate me to the point of madness. I am a person of solid character and integrity and I expect the same of others. It's not too much to ask. I have a winning attitude in that I look for the good in all things and all people and try my best to make the most out of any given situation.
I am intelligent, educated and well rounded. I am keenly aware of current events and the world in general. I have a low tolerance for ignorant and naive people. No, just because you saw it on TV or the internet doesn't mean it's true! I have a good sense of humor and a sarcastic wit.
I enjoy a drink here or there and like chilling out at home with a glass of wine or champagne (there's a great place in Napa I order from). However, I am not a big booze guy and if you need alcohol (or gambling, for that matter) to fulfill your life, we're going to be at odds sooner than later. Been there, done that. I do enjoy going to bars and clubs, I just don't get drunk often as it doesn't agree with me.
If you're looking for a guy who is kind, romantic, intelligent, responsible, financially stable, sane and just generally an enjoyable human being, drop me a wink or an email. Trust me, if you have your priorities straight and your attitude in the right place, you will not be disappointed.
Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. Good luck and Godspeed!
Jay
