How do you do this without sounding narcissistic?
I am a VERY (yes I capital lettered that on purpose) outgoing person. I love to hike, surf, swim, and study martial arts. I work full time as well as trying to start my own business on the side. I recently moved into my new house in North Hollywood which is in the middle of a remodel :( So most of my time is concentrated on getting my house where I want it to be and working.
The type of girl I want to meet is a girl who is active in the outdoors and health conscious. She would laugh at all my stupid corny jokes and maybe even get sarcastic with me. She can help me with my remodel since I am color blind (yes a little) and sometimes do weird color matching.
Dinner and conversation is my idea of a good first date. I do not drink but it is OK if you do. Smoking (cigarettes) is blah...
I recently went through and epiphany about family and relationships that is a long story but a beautiful one. The only problem is it is hard to put it to words. But I am happy to tell it to anyone who is interested in hearing it. Because of this experience I went through I am not really looking for woman at the club/bars. So where do I go from there? I am a bit old to be hitting on girls in the gym *wink*
I told my female friends that I was signing up for match.com and I asked them to give me some good advice. This is what they said:
"There is no way you could even remotely express your personality on your profile."
"Well let's hope there are girls that still like the skinny whiteboys."
"Cade!! I did not realize you are so desperate!"
"Tell them your funny and if you do meet a girl tone it down on the sarcasm at first."
"OMG I can't wait to hear the stories you have to tell about this."
Gotta love your friends.
Stay gold Ponyboy (5 points if you know what that is from)
PS. If you wink at me I promise to write back.