I am a 30 year old female who lived in NYC my whole life. This is actually my very first time on a dating website and I am actually sort of nervous. Ok here it goes...I was not the type of girl who always wanted to have a boyfriend. This does not mean that I was a crazy party girl 24/7. I just feel like ever since I got older, I became more picky in who I wanted to date or have a relationship with. Since I turned 30, I really do feel like I am ready to meet someone who is an open-minded, independent, honest, caring person who is really fun to be around. I love to laugh and always want to be around someone who does not sweat the small stuff. I am a down to earth, sarcastic (in a good way), non-judgemental,intelligent, caring person with a great sense of humor. I am extrenely laid back and can have fun in almost any place I go. I do not like any DRAMA in my life and I really hate to fight.
I am just getting sick of meeting guys at a crowded bar where they are literally pressed up against me and super drunk. It would be nice to meet someone instead of at bars. Now, even though I want to be in a relationshiop someday, I still want to take things slow when I meet someone. For example, I would NEVER ask after the third date "where things are going between us." I would never smother you or try to make you change your ways (Its just not my style.) But I am a very affectionate person if I do feel that we have a connection. Sooo, if you are interested in my photos (and yes they are RECENT photos) and my profile, feel free to wink or email me.