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39 year old man
Los Angeles, California, United States

Seeking:
women 29-35
Within:
Miles of
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Ladies. You want honesty. I'm your man. I'm going to be blunt about some things and you need to understand that I'm a really nice guy, probably nicer than these words might express. But I believe that brutal honesty is important. The smallest of lies can ruin everything.

First, I've learned from previous relationships that there are two things you must have or a relationship will fail. Sex and communication. No matter how honest you are, no matter how much you love someone, if the sex goes or the communication goes, you can kiss the relationship goodbye. So I'm looking for someone who can express their sexuality and understands the importance if it within a relationship. After all, what's a relationship without the physical connection. It's a friendship. As for communication, if you can't say what you are feeling and trust the person you are with to listen and respect you, no matter how negative the news might be, why waste your time. The only way issues can be fixed is to talk about them.

Now I realize that's wrong. I love to share the things i enjoy and if I can't, were just not a match. So here's a few things important to me.
-must like sports
-must want children in the future (ok if you have one, as long as you are open to having more later. I want my own)
-most love food (if you believe in a gluten free diet, are a vegetarian, a non-drinker, or any other limit to your diet that is a choice and not a health requirement, don't waste your time)
-must believe in working out and taking care of their body (allows you to eat more food too)
-must have confidence (sexy is an attitude, not how much skin you show. You can be sexy in sweatpants if you carry yourself well)
-must be able to make their own decisions
-must be able to hold a conversation (I'm a talker, but I'm also a great listener)
-must have a work ethic
-must have a desire to travel
-can't be religious (I have faith in myself and don't believe anyone but me controls my destiny. It's ok if you believe, as long as it not in my face or you ask me to go to church. It's not happening)
-can't be high maintenance

I don't think that's too much to ask...as for physically I like to think I love women of all shapes, sizes, ethnicities, etc. I certainly won't discriminate. I will say I do have an affinity for petite brunettes, so if your under 5'5", brunette and athletic, you are already a step ahead. However, don't think that I don't find blondes or redheads attractive, I do. I've dated women from 4'11"-6'1". I won't deny myself from meeting an amazing person based on a limited physical requirement.

As for me, this is what you need to know. I'm an opinionated guy (couldn't you tell) but I have no problem admitting when I'm wrong. I was taught manners by my parents so if I meet yours, you know ill be respectful. Ma'am, Sir, please, and thank you are important and underutilized words in most people's vocabulary. Also chivalry isn't dead. Opening doors, walking on the outside of the street, offering you my jacket when it's cold, my mom taught me from a young age to respect women. I also like to cook so if you do as well we can have fun in the kitchen together. If you don't, I'll cook for you everyday if you do the dishes. Fair trade I think. I'm a natural athlete who fortunately is good at everything, but unfortunately wasnt great at anything. I do crossfit a couple days a week to stay in shape and feel better than I did when I was in my 20s. I'm 38 going on 28.

That's me. Opinionated, sometimes stubborn, but loyal, honest and respectful and understands that a relationship is work, but shouldn't feel like it. You have to have it all. Physical, mental, and emotional connections. If ones missing, it's time to move on. But if you find it, hold on because its rare.

p.s. - if you golf message me. Even if it isnt for romantic purposes. I love new golf friends and if you're attractive its that much better

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Golf, Martial arts, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Play golf, homebrew beer, having a nice meal out or a relaxing night at home cooking, etc etc

Favorite hot spots:

DTLA, Silverlake, San Fran, San Diego, Santa Barbara wine country, the occasional Vegas trip....

Favorite things:

gourmet meals either out or cooking at home...craft beer, good wine and cheese, and coffee...on TV - Dexter, The League, Its Always Sunny...crossfit, golfing whenever possible, playing any team sports...too many things to list, so little space

Last read:

Admittedly Im not much of a fiction reader...my vice is cookbooks. They are to me what shoes are to most women.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'7" (170cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Salt and pepper
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Moderately
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference
Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Im whiter than white. Irish, English, Scottish, German, and Dutch...thankfully Im not super pale.

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Some college
No preference

I was a computer science major back in the day. I had my Office Space moment and realized Im much better in a social setting than I would be working 9-5 behind a desk.

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