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39 year old woman
Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Seeking:
men 35-45
Within:
300 Miles of Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

So, I have gotten the question a few times: "why are you (still) online, single, etc.?"

First of all...don't you just love when people ask you that??

Well, I guess there are many reasons why--too many to itemize here. However, if I am really honest with myself, many of the reasons lie within. I may not have been ready to devote the time and effort required to date seriously. At times, I've been completely preoccupied with other things--work, travel, etc. Then there were the comparisons to prior relationships, where, I will admit, I was disappointed and discouraged for various reasons. I spent most of my twenties/early thirties in just a couple of those relationships. The list goes on and on.

After rereading what I wrote so long ago, and doing a self-assessment of sorts, I've decided to replace the old words and give a true snapshot of "me", since I believe that, given various changes I have made in my life, I am finally "ready".

I am not perfect, and have finally realized that it is therefore completely unfair to seek perfection in someone else. I can be late at times, and have way too many interests, which can lead to a bit of disorganization from time to time. I am trained to work in the corporate world, but have a constant struggle with myself as I want to "save the world" also. I am an INFP (for those Myers Briggs people out there), if that means anything to you. I love anything creative, am always inquisitive, and want to visit at least six continents (not really feeling Antarctica....). I love to laugh, am a romantic person at my core, and fight with my idealistic side. The realist in me has to keep that side in check--it can be a cold world!

I am a dreamer. At one time I resisted that quality, but now I love that about myself. My heart guides most of my actions, although I am still very analytical. I'm genuine and don't care much for pretentious people or false airs. I believe that life is too short to judge everyone, so I don't. I think that you can never give or receive too many hugs, kisses, "I love you's", or words of encouragement. My godson, niece and nephew are my joy, and I adore my parents who have been married for over 45 years, along with the rest of my family and friends.

I'm old school in a lot of ways. I believe in marriage, eating together as a family, praying together, etc. The Golden Rule is something I try and live by, and no matter how old I get, I'm still frequently amazed at how many people seem to believe the opposite is true.

I used to write that I'm cool with being friends...but let's face it. That isn't why most of us are online. We want that chemistry, that excitement....that anticipation of finally finding the partner in our lives that we can use words like "forever" and "unconditional love" with without any trepidation.

So. That's me--unfiltered.

If you are kind, love God and your family and friends; are intelligent, considerate, and respectful....we should talk soon. Thanks for reading my essay (it wasn't supposed to be this long!).... :)

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Billiards / Pool, Cycling, Dancing, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Movies, theater and other live performances, hanging with family and friends, working out, swimming, eating out (which leads me to ultimately work out some more...), dancing, roller coasters, and--last but not least--traveling.

Favorite hot spots:

Any place where I can dance; theaters in NYC. I really enjoyed San Fran, fell in love with Barcelona, and found paradise when I went to St. Martin. Love Monte Carlo...but really, the comfort of my own home (especially during storms) is cool too.

Favorite things:

I love most kinds of music. Right now I have been playing a lot more gospel, jazz and neo-soul...but I also love hip-hop (old school), R&B, and I love dancing to Latin music. I am not a picky eater, but I do love Italian, Indian, and Caribbean food.

Last read:

Doing Life Differently: The Art of Living Life With Imagination (Luci Swindoll)

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'10" (208cms)
Body type:
About average
No preference
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English, Other
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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