So let's address this very legitimate question you might have right away! At 41, why have I never been married and have no kids? The answer is simply this, I either haven't met the right one, or I did meet the one, but just not at the right time. Both have happened to me. Although I am a little bummed I haven't made that connection yet, I'm not ashamed either. I won't compromise and wont get married just to be married. That wouldn't be fair to either one of us and certainly not for the kids, if there were some. I want to marry once and will do my best to make that come true. I'm not looking for perfection, just compatibility to be completely in love and best friends. Having said that, here is a little about me.
My friends would describe me as fun, loyal, helpful, hardworking and would be a great father and husband. I would say I am honest, loyal, romantic, sensual, have a huge heart, do it myself type of guy and I am SO READY for THE ONE! I have waited long enough. I am a very good listener and have learned over the years that communication is essential. I also am proud that I am able to forgive almost anything. I enjoy teaching baseball to kids, listening to and playing music, building and fixing things, doing anything that has to do with water and sun, just being with the one I love and taking care of her. I am very lucky to have a large circle of friends that are great people and a great mother and father.
I'm a man's man for sure, but really do have a huge heart and am sensitive when it counts most. Just don't tell my guy friends, sssshhhhhhh!
I am hoping to find a girl who is fun, loyal, enjoys exercise and sports, that might have some of the same interests as me. I would really like kids, but if I the ONE for me does not include kids, that's ok too. If you have a great smile then big bonus points as I am a sucker for a nice smile. I believe a smile tells a lot about a person. I'm looking for the girl I feel compelled to tell her I miss her and give her a card or a flower telling her I love her. If you like to wear a hat and sweats around the house, but dress sexy at night, that's a plus.
I'm very straight forward, respectful, intuitive an have common sense more than most.
When the opportunity presents itself, I like to just get away in spontaneous fashion and enjoy something new.
I own my own business. which allows me to have a flexible schedule and I think that makes enjoying life easier.
I love sushi, dinners at the beach, dinners at home, concerts and i would like to travel more.
I try to eat healthy and I take omega 3, B-12 and drink green drinks to help keep me healthy and young. I don't know how I do it, but I don't drink coffee and stay away from sodas. I pretty much drink water. A glass of Merlot at the end of the day doesn't hurt either.
I prefer board shorts and flip flops, but I clean up pretty good too.
Are you "The One" for me? I sure hope so!
I hope to hear from you!