I think I'm pretty well balanced and I've reached an age of mental maturity that allows me a great deal of self confidence and comfort. I'm also fairly adaptable, and I regularly change my life in ways that expose me to new ideas and ways of living. This has mostly been in the places I have chosen to live and work, but it is also is in the ways I use my leisure time. If I could work out the finances, I'd probably split my time between So Cal beaches, London - including the theatre district, Cambridge, MA, Napa, and Montmartre, FR, with regular trips to Park City and Maui.
What I'd really like would be a deep and trusting relationship with someone that is light and free, someone I can pal around with, but also someone who would not be overly dependent on me for all their entertainment. I guess what I want is a grown up relationship, but one with great joy, fun, is carefree, and one that will grow and evolve, in short one that will change and mature.
I'm looking also for someone with a youthful outlook. I feel very much like I did in my thirties and early forties and I live my physical life much as I did when I was 35.