The truth is, if you've gone out more than a few times you're most likey tired of the same old approach. You need to be challenged and you deserve to be intrigued, or at least that's what I believe.
Here's what else I believe:
You deserve to be pursued for who you are and not just your cup and waist size.
You deserve someone to actually put in some effort and to not have your time wasted.
Your physical beauty should be appreciated and complimented but so should everything else you have to offer.
You should be treated like a princess but respected like the smart independent thinker you are.
You deserve to feel real physical chemistry, to feel attracted to and turned on by someone without the cheap attempts to get into your pants.
I started my profile off with you's instead of I's because I have a lot to offer, but just saying so doesn't do much. Although I love to talk, I've learned that the best thing a man can do is listen. That intro is meant to show you, rather than tell you that I haven't just been marking time in life. I pay attention and learn from experiences, both mine and others'. It's also meant to communicate that your needs and wants would be my priority.
At my core, I am a gentlemen. That is a direct result of good parenting. My father taught me to be patient, supportive and understanding. I am kind and compassionate. I'm naturally charming and charismatic. I'm not afraid to say so myself because I'm very self aware. I know my faults as well as I do my strengths. I work on them constantly. I 'm also genuine and honest. I know the value of good character. I stand by my values, but I'm also open minded and I believe what I believe for a far better reason than somebody told me to believe it. I love to hear others' opinions because I have a very philosophical and analytical mind. I'm intelligent, driven and as you can probably tell, mature.
That doesn't mean that I don't like to have fun. I'm a big kid at heart. I have a great sense of humor and there is always a smile on my face. I must warn you though, I've been told that it is highly contagious. Spending time with me has the side effect of causing you to laugh and smile excessively. ; ) I'm perpetually optimistic; I have an uncommonly positive outlook on life, which is why I'm always smiling.
I'm down to earth but I'm also adventurous and spontaneous. I consider myself worldly, experienced and cultured. I'm confident but not cocky. On that note, I think what I am not is just as important as what I am. I'm not controlling or jealous. I'm persistent but not stubborn. I'm definitely not selfish and far from ignorant.
If you aren't tired of the word 'I' yet, here's where it gets good:
I absolutely love to dance and I'm actually good at it. If you're bold enough to venture out on the dance floor with me, I promise you will absolutely enjoy it. Please finish your drink first however, you're going to need both hands ;D.
I have an unparalleled passion for life and everything in it. I throw myself into relationships, work and just about anything else I engage in. If I'm going to do anything, I'm going to do it 100% and enjoy it to the fullest.
I have a way of making people feel really comfortable with me. I know I'm not supposed to be the one to point that out but it's something I've observed. It may be charm and my general openness, it may be because I actually listen or it may just be a random occurrence, but I'm sure that within a week of knowing me it'll feel like we've known each other for years.
I am looking to meet friends first, to hang out and have a good time. I would love to take you on a few dates to see what happens. I'm not at all opposed to a relationship, I just don't want to jump in blind. I would much rather build a good foundation with a strong mental and emotional connection first, and have a great time in the process. ;D
