I'm a loyal, career-driven person with a very tight-knit group of friends. I play drums here and there (was in a southern rock cover band for several years), and I'm part of a local theatre company. I like going out to see art or hang out in local bars. I work a lot so I my down time is spent relaxing on my balcony with the paper or watching a baseball game. I'm very happy and comfortable on my own, and I like my space. Looking for someone who is the same. If you're super clingy or needy, or don't have your own life with goals, etc, it prolly won't work.