I am clean and thoughtful, not looking for the one night stand sort of relationship but want to become friends first. Dont get me wrong, I need and want passion in my life and in the woman who will want to be with me. But have had the passion without love and it dosnt last. I have spent much of my life working without making time to have the joy and fun a healthy relationship can bring so I am wanting to change that for the rest of my life. Hmm, that sound sort of serious, lol. But I do hope to meet someone here and we can both make a connection that is fun and thst lasts.